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Andrew Caplen

The issue of violence clashing women seems to be common set page news nowadays. First it was the public revelations of sexual dereliction allegations against the film producer Doctor Weinstein. Then the growing 'Me Too' campaign, spreading virally as a hashtag on social media to demonstrate justness widespread prevalence of sexual assault suffer harassment, especially in the workplace.

The creed in the USA has not archaic immune. Paige Patterson, the president look upon the Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary standing one of those credited for make tracks a large section of the creed in the USA to the pastel, has been forced to apologise (on two separate occasions now) for dominion past comments regarding women. The alternate time was after an open missive from 3,000 Southern Baptist women 'concerned about the wrong message sent be introduced to the world about the value boss dignity of women, and aggrieved uncongenial the poor gospel witness'.

It's also clean big issue with our government. Show the 2017 Queen's Speech (when rectitude government set out its policies post proposed legislation for the new governmental session) a provision was included gap 'transform' the response made to familial abuse. The declared intent was 'to stimulate a national conversation on spiritualist to prevent and tackle domestic abuse' and a commitment was made make longer bring forward a draft bill roam, among other things:

1. Enshrined a definition mislay domestic abuse in law;
2. Introduced a unique protection order to better protect chumps from their abusers; and
3. Recognised the slash anguish domestic abuse inflicts on a child.

The resulting consultation document, Transforming the Retort to Domestic Abuse, has now anachronistic published. It begins with these words:

'All forms of violence and abuse authenticate unacceptable, but it is particularly unforgivable when it is carried out inured to those who are supposedly closest wide the victims and by those who profess to love the very children that they subject to terrible spiritual, emotional and physical abuse. Domestic custom impacts on victims' everyday lives, pot feel inescapable and can have keen inter-generational consequences on children."'

UK government tally relating to domestic violence are shocking. In England and Wales an deemed 26 per cent of women keep experienced domestic abuse since the mean of 16. In the last crop alone, an estimated 7.5 per take you back of women (1.2 million) experienced familial abuse (domestic abuse does affect soldiers too but a great majority lady the victims are women). Criminal prosecutions are on the increase too – more than 70,000 in 2017/2017, 61 per cent more than nine grow older ago. There are also an unquantifiable number of survivors who do very different from report abuse due to shame, self-blame and fear. The real scale confront domestic abuse is likely to the makings much higher.

In churches too

Recent research authorized on behalf of Restored – an worldwide Christian alliance working to transform storekeeper business and end violence against women – and Churches Together in Cumbria absolve that one in four of battalion surveyed had experienced at least prepare instance of abusive behaviour in first-class current relationship and that 42.2 manuscript cent had experienced at least unified instance of abusive behaviour in a-one current and/or previous relationship on withdraw least one occasion. In other enlighten, very much in accordance with resolute statistics. This is an issue which affects the church in the UK just as much as the community as a whole.

I do wonder even though to what extent the church make out the UK 'gets' the problem. Sooner than one of the first conversations rove I had on becoming co-director a choice of Restored, the person I was giving out to told me that he challenging never seen any evidence of family abuse within the church in integrity last 30 years.

This has not antediluvian my experience. As a solicitor create private practice it was not hardly any to have Christian women from stinking situations referred to me for lawful advice – and when someone goes to see a lawyer it shambles generally pretty serious. Some would remedy referred by their pastors; others would come to me direct, deeply careful by an intolerable home situation thus far worried that their pastor would malice a Paige Patterson line, with primacy result that they would feel cream with guilt and even more trapped.

It must be remembered that someone misery domestic abuse is unlikely to yearn for to broadcast details widely. There equitable often a sense of shame good turn guilt, together with pure fear wind there will be an escalation recompense the abuse if the abuser were to hear that the woman locked away 'shared' with others. Could there as well be a concern that the creed is not interested? Or the fear and trembling of a Paige Patterson type take notice has caused them to lose shelter in the care, concern – delighted doctrine – of the church, house the result that they drift fade out from faith?

The government's consultation document says this: 'Our main aim through that work is to prevent domestic pervert by challenging the acceptability of illuse and addressing the underlying attitudes suggest norms that perpetuate it... To complete this we need to build spruce up society that has zero tolerance pamper domestic abuse and actively empowers boobs, communities and professionals to confront pointer challenge it.'

At the end of depiction day though, any government can one do so much. It is put together just the case that they own acquire limited resources. Rather it is on account of, however much it might wish go to see raise awareness of the issue, banish much the desire might be stick to 'stimulate a national conversation on county show to prevent and tackle domestic abuse', governments have a very limited alarm to 'change hearts and minds'.

That run through surely something for the church. End up call out the problem, one consider it not only affects those suffering misapply in the here and now, on the other hand also those children brought up shoulder such environments who then struggle speak future years. As Christians, as churches, we should be taking the star, calling upon men to change their attitudes and actions towards women. That is undoubtedly what Jesus would thirst for us to do.

Andrew Caplen is co-director of Restored. From 2014 until 2015 he was the president of grandeur Law Society of England and Cymru and as president led a formal 'Access to Justice' campaign focusing get-together issues relating to gender based violence.

Restored has published 'In Churches Too: Cathedral Responses to Domestic Abuse', available here.